It makes it hard to know what you're supposed to look like as you grow. Because it's pretty hard to link the genetics of why you look the way you look when you're an Asian in a white family.īecause when you're cross-culturally adopted, you don't look like everyone in your family. You know, the one where you write down everyone in your family's hair color, eye color, widow's peck, etc. Ever have to go up to your third grade teacher and ask if you would still be able to do a family tree since you're adopted? Or have your sixth grade teacher tell you that it wasn't necessary for you to do a genetic traits chart? On a lighter note, it also makes some school assignments a little awkward. You could be a ticking time bomb just waiting to go off. Sometimes it's knowing that you were never really wanted. Sometimes it's knowing that your adopted parents tried to have their own children first. Sometimes it's knowing that you were ripped away from a beautiful culture and language.
Sometimes it's knowing that she carried you for nine months but didn't think of a name for you. Sometimes it's wondering if the woman who carried you in her belly for nine months ever even held you in her arms. I can tell you that it isn't always being grateful that your birth mother decided to give you life and give you away. I have felt and lived in the pain that can come with being adopted.
If I wasn't given the choice to keep my child, if my only options were adoption or an abortion, I would choose an abortion. Personally, I think that once you give the government control of reproductive choices, you cannot take that power back. Some have put restrictions on the number of children women could keep. Some have forced women to become pregnant and bear children. Other governments have put laws in place governing children. I'm pro-choice because, if the government took away my choice, I would choose abortion.Ĭonfused? Don't worry, I'll explain more.
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